Family, friends, social workers, neighbors, etc. play important advocacy roles for the elderly. When more than one advocate meet there can still be differences of opinion – here is what to keep in mind:
- For the most part, everyone has the best interest of the elderly friend/relative/client in mind.
- Although well intentioned, most lack the expertise to help guide the elderly through the healthcare system and know the real issues they face. There are complicated issues involved. If you are a relative, seek out someone you trust who has the expertise. If you are an advocate with the expertise, keep the elderly client and the family informed, and be patient.
- Dealing with these kinds of emotional issues often create bonds and an advocate or a loved one can feel threatened by a new person coming in, whether that fear is rational or not. Remember that these feelings almost always come from a place of caring. Avoid power struggles!
- When a daughter or son come into the picture as P.O.A. for the elderly, your motives as friend or professional may be questioned. Remember that it’s an adult child looking out for his or her parent in love. Have a thick skin.
- Remain appreciative of everything various people do to help your elderly friend, relative or client. A simple thank you goes a long way!
This article was written by Todd Stork, Founder, GoCare Senior Placement * Advocacy
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